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Cosmic forces unite

 
We have all heard the phrases men are from Mars- women are from Venus. While doing some reading recently, I realized we could learn a lot about relationships from our solar system.
 
Imagine that you and the person you are presently dating are two planets orbiting the sun. There are three basic laws of nature that need to exist between you or collision is inevitable.
 
 
Firstly, you have to be revolving in the same direction- ultimate goals of how you want to live your life and where you want the relationship to end up.
 
The second is altitude. It stands to reason that if we are not flying at the same level, someone ends up in the shadow of the other. Distance will also makes for difficult communication. I think this is also important when it comes to moral and spiritual beliefs. One is not right or wrong- but these differences can make you universes apart.
 
The third is speed. The pace of which one lives their life can make or break a relationship, faster than the speed of light. If you are a mover and groover like myself- being with someone that can or wants to keep the pace is ideal. No one wants to drag or be dragged through someone else’s world.
 
Sometimes two people are just like the sun and the moon- sharing the same sky but never out together, or at least not for long.
 
Have you had a relationship where you were light years apart and tried to fight the cosmic forces?
 
I did and eventually had to let gravity pull me back down to earth.
 
Tell me about it in share your story.
 
 
XO
Cheryl

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